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Clairaudience is the ability to hear messages from the spirit world. It is the gift of psychic hearing.
How to tell if you have clairaudience:
Signs you might be clairaudient include (but are not limited to):
If you don't know whether you are clairaudient or not take my Mediumship Quiz to find out. I takes a few minutes to determine how you are most strongly wired as a medium.
Is clairaudience rare?
If you are a natural clairaudient, you're a rare bird, indeed.
Only 13% of the people that take my Mediumship Quiz score as natural clairaudients compared to the 37% of people who score as clairsentient - psychic feeling.
Clairaudience is sort of like the left-handedness of spirit communication! :)
Being clairaudient means that you receive messages from the spirit world and your guides through your internal - and sometimes external - hearing.
You hear words, sounds, music, etc. in your head during spirit communication. Spirit will send you things like first, last or middle names or initials, words from a favorite poem, song lyrics, humming, tones, ringing, fully formed words, the melody of a particular song and other possible sounds that provide evidence and help to identify the spirit.
Clairaudients also receive messages from their spirit guides through their hearing capacity. For example your spirit guide may send you the answer to a request that you've made for a sign through a song on the radio or an announcement over a loud speaker. Or by sending you a key word or sound via your psychic / internal hearing (ummm... your clairaudience... :)
If you are clairaudient you can be sure that your guides will try to get your attention through sound of some sort.
Clairaudience is like the spirit world talking on the phone with you... without the phone! ;)
Many clairaudients will go through periods when they hear intense ringing in their ears (but do not suffer from tinnitus) for sustained periods of time. This ringing often accompanies the onset of clairaudience or the beginning of mediumship development and usually subsides as you grow into your clairaudience.
For the most part, though, your clairaudience sounds just like you, talking to yourself in your head.
Except it's not coming from you.
How do you tell the difference between clairaudience and internal chatter?
There are several ways to distinguish psychic hearing from your internal chatter:
Clairaudience is a bit like claircognizance so it is easy to mix up these two clairs.
Here's a real life example of the difference:
I was at the grocery store a couple of days ago with my husband. As the cashier handed him the receipt I knew there was something wrong with it. When I checked it over we had, indeed, been overcharged by quite a bit for one of our items. This knowing is claircognizance. Clairaudience would have been hearing in my head out of nowhere the words "Check that receipt". I didn't hear those words. I just knew that something was up. That's the difference.
Now... just because you may not be a natural clairaudient doesn't mean that you can't develop the gift. You absolutely can! It just takes some time and practice. I will share some exercises that will help you do this.
And if you are a natural clairaudient the exercises below will help you strengthen and hone your gift.
So either way... go for it!
Ways to develop clairaudience
Here are 4 great ways to develop and strengthen your clairaudience:
1. Practice tuning into the sounds around you:
We spend an awful lot of time tuning out many of the sounds around us. There is such an excess of sound pollution that we actually need to do this to stay sane.
However, if you want to develop clairaudience you need to be willing to practice and make your physical hearing much more sensitive.
So try this:
Close your eyes and take a couple of nice deep breaths. Now l-i-s-t-e-n to the sounds in your environment, trying to tune into one at a time.
What do you hear? The sound of your neighbors lawn mower? The hum of the refrigerator? A cardinal singing in the tree outside the window?
Try and single out different sounds and focus on the for a minute or so. When you are done with that sound move on, identify a new one and focus solely on that one for a minute or so. Rinse and repeat for 10 minutes.
You can do this same exercise while listening to a piece of your favorite music through your ear buds. Single out and focus on different individual instruments for a 10 minute clairaudience meditation! Tip: classical music works really well for this exercise. Especially Beethoven's Symphony No.7 in A major: op 92 - II, Alegretto. I love practicing clairvoyance to this piece of music. :)
2. Practice hearing sounds or music inside your head
Do the opposite of what you did above and create sounds in your imagination.
Recreate the drip drip of that darn faucet that needs fixing.
Listen to your best favorite ever song from your best ever favorite musical - inside your head! Recreate the whole darn thing.
Practice recreating all kinds of different sounds. This definitely gets your clairaudient juices flowing and is great practice for natural clairaudients.
3. Take a silent walk in nature
So that ... no talkie talkie.
Then shhhhhhhh.... listen.
What do you hear?
4. Practice asking a question then receiving the answer from spirit
If you are in need of some guidance from your guides ask for it. Ask them to send you the answer via your clairaudience. Tell them you want to hear their guidance.
Then listen for the answer.
It might come from inside your head via your psychic hearing.
It might come externally through the words of a song or something you happen to overhear in a conversation that someone else is having. You might notice that you clearly hear a certain bird's call then check out the symbolism for that particular bird and BAM... you've got your answer.
Who knew practice could be so much fun!
So there you go all you special and unique clairaudients. Some easy ways to hone your gift of psychic hearing.
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Back in August 2016 I wrote this blog post on the Top 6 Must Have Crystals & Gemstones for Psychic Development.
It's been (and continues to be) a very popular blog post.
(If you haven't read that post then you might want to, as I will be sharing with you my suggestions for how to use those 6 very stones in this blog post.)
Since that time I have had many readers email me asking how to use these gemstones in psychic development. I've responded to each and every one with my suggestions.
Now, because of all the interest, I'm figuring it's time for a blog post on this topic.
What can I say... sometimes I'm a slow learner. ;)
There are several ways you can acquire these stones which include:
Ok, so now you have these six wonderful stones - and possibly even more - in your collection. Now what do you do with them?
Before you begin:
Before you begin to use your crystals and stones I highly recommend that you take these 3 steps with each one:
1. Clear & clean them:
Your new stones have spent time in the space and hands of others which means that they will be holding some residual energy, stored energy and possibly unwanted vibrations. It is important to clear these energies before you use the crystals and stones yourself.
4 great ways to do this are: (choosing one of these methods will do just fine)
2. Charge them:
Charging your crystals and stones will do wonders for them. Sunlight charges / recharges crystals.
Recharging is often recommended for crystals only, however I recharge both my crystals and my other gemstones, because recharging stones cannot hurt them, it will only be neutral at the very least (no effect whatsoever) or will be beneficial for them. So either way, I can't go wrong.
3. Set your intention for each crystal and stone:
Sometimes this is referred to as "activating" and/or "programming" your stones. I do this with an intention for each stone's use on my journey at this time.
My suggestions for setting your intention with your stones are:
So, for example, if you want your stones to help you on your psychic and mediumship development journey you would choose them for those specific qualities (like the ones that I recommend in my Top 6 post) then craft your intention to this effect and place that intention, either written or spoken, into each of the stones.
If want to change the intention that you have set for a particular stone simply follow the above steps to go back and clean, clear and charge that stone then infuse it with your new intention.
Now that you have cleaned, cleared, charged and set the intention for your stones/crystals here's...
How to use them:
Here are 5 effective ways to use your stones / crystals.
1. Wear them
Stones and crystals in pendant, ring, bracelet, wire wrapped with a bale for hanging from a chain, or other type of jewelry setting may be worn. See below for my recommendations for which of the "Top 6 Must Have's" are best worn.
Tumbled stones can also be worn by placing them in one of your pockets, inside your bra near your heart chakra, inside a medicine bag, in your purse, pocket book or wallet for a few suggestions. Come up with your own unique way of wearing and carrying your tumbled stones with you.
2. Pair them
Pairing stones that are complimentary with one another can enhance each of the stones powers making both of them stronger. Paring them can be as simple as wearing two stones together (finger rings work well this way) at the same time and as more advanced as having two different stones placed into one piece of jewelry so they are always together.
Pairing also works well when placing stones in a space. See below for my paring suggestions for the "Top 6".
3. Meditate with them
If you are using stones to enhance your psychic and mediumship abilities I strongly suggest that you meditate with them regularly.
Not only are they likely to increase your focus and concentration they will eventually even help you stay in meditation longer.
To meditate with your stones / crystals simply choose one and hold it in your hand during your meditation.
You can also hold your stone over one (or more by moving it during the meditation) of your chakras.
4. Place them in your spirit space
Make sure that you have some of your stones and crystals placed into you sacred and / or spirit space (the special place where you meditate and connect with spirit). Use your intuition to guide you towards their best placement in your space.
Obviously how you place the stones in your sacred space will depend on how you have configured that space so use the above as a guideline to come up with your own unique placement in your unique space.
5. Create a crystal grid
So much fun and such a powerful way to use your stones!
Using the power of Sacred Geometry you can work your stones into a grid pattern so that they can work together to bring you what it is you want from them.
I suggest a hexagonal grid for the Top 6 Must Haves.
I have a more detailed article plus my own grid layout specifically for psychic and mediumship enhancement and development plus a grid available for download exclusively for members in my Mediumship Learning Portal MLP). You can access all of that here.
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As for the Top 6 Must Have Crystals & Gemstones that I recommend you acquire for your psychic and mediumship development here are my recommendations on how to use them:
Tazan Aura Quartz:
So there you go. More guidance on how to use your crystals and stones for your psychic and mediumship development journey.
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Developing your psychic and mediumship abilities takes patience and focus. Oh... and practice.
Practice makes your psychic & mediumship muscles stronger.
But we all have only so much time in a day. So when do we fit in all this practice?
I have found that breaking psychic practices down into simple, manageable (bite sized!) pieces works really well for me.
There are lots of little things that you can do in your day to help you keep your psychic medium muscles strong and supple.
Here are four simple daily practices that I highly recommend:
1. Be in quiet...
"A wise old owl sat in an oak
The more he saw the less he spoke
The less he spoke the more he heard
Why can't I be like that wise old bird?"
(Author unknown, Children's nursery song)
When you go for a run do you feel naked without your iPod earbuds in your ears?
When you are driving do you have talk radio on or music playing?
Do you generally feel the need to fill the quiet space around you with some kind of sound?
Back in 2007 I turned off the radio in my car. And I never turned it back on. I have driven thousands of miles in total silence. Driving has become a wonderful opportunity for me to practice being in quiet.
I have received many an intuitive flash while driving in silence.
I've even been a chauffeur to spirits who wanted to send a message to a loved one. (more on this in an upcoming post!)
So much of what we do as psychic mediums requires us to get into a place of mental quiet. That's one of the reasons that we meditate.
So it behooves us to get used to just being quiet. No bells, no whistles, just quiet.
I guarantee that if you get comfortable with being quiet you are doing wonders for your psychic muscles. And your connection with spirit.
Rather than trying to fill up every potentially quiet space with conversation, or music, or whatever, make a point of making at least one of the activities in your day something you do in quiet.
Taking a bus ride? Do it in silence. Simply sit, listen, observe, feel into the space.
Preparing a meal? Do it in silence.
Turn off the radio in the car and drive in the silence.
Leave your iPod at home when you go for you run. Take your run in silence.
Cozy up to the sound of silence.
2. Go with the flow
When an urge hits you to take a certain action or do a certain thing go ahead and do it.
When this happens it is your subconscious trying to get through. Your inner voice is speaking with you. Your intuition is knocking!
The more you trust that voice within instead of letting external influences (the needs of others for example) dictate your movements and choices, the more you tune into the voice of your own intuition, the more your develop your psychic muscles.
Yup. S'true. :)
So allow yourself to go with the flow at least once a day.
3. Inspirational writing
Give your imagination total control for 10 minutes each day. Let it speak to you through inspirational writing.
Here's how you do that:
Many famous authors, the likes of Mary Shelly (author of Frankenstein) included have allowed themselves to let their imaginations take over and flow with inspirational writing. That's how their stories were born!
Your goal (if there is one at all) is simply to relax and let your imagination take over and inspire you.
Have fun conducting little psychic experiments of your own and keep track of your results in a journal.
Here is one example of how to do this:
Just before going to bed at night take a moment to visualize in your mind something that you will be doing or a place that you will be visiting the next day.
Let's say you will be going to lunch with a friend and will be eating in a restaurant you have not previously visited. Imagine yourself at that lunch before going to sleep. Take in the scene in your mind’s eye and notice details such as:
Who is around you?
Who is at your table?
What is the server wearing?
What do you see when you look at the menu?
What do the chairs look like?
What colour is the tablecloth?
How are the walls decorated?
Try to visualize and notice as many details as you can, then jot down a description of the all the details that you see.
At lunch the next day, look around and take note of things that match what you saw in your mind’s eye the night before.
You can also have fun pre-visualizing such things as which teller will serve you at your bank, who you might meet at the grocery store and who is calling you on the phone (before answering and, no peeking at call display!)
Come up with your own fun ways to experiment with your psychic abilities. And don't forget to keep track of your results and progress in your journal.
So there you go. Four super simple daily practices to keep your psychic medium muscles strong!
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“When you have cleared all of your clutter you can be of greater service to those around you.” ~ Michael B. Kitson
Your chakras are intimately involved with your ability to receive information during psychic and mediumship readings.
You are bouncing off the energy fields of others around you all the time. You pick up their energy and they pick up yours. This goes on in both your everyday life and in your readings.
Therefore it is important to release and clear negative, stuck or stagnant energy contained within your chakras to bring them back into balance and good alignment. Otherwise you risk not only experiencing the physical symptoms of chakra imbalance such as feeling tired or listless, headaches, coughs that tend to hang on, a sore lower back and so on, but also hindering your ability to accurately read energy and experience a clear connection with the spirit world.
That's why your chakras need a good clean, clear and declutter every now and then to keep you psychically sharp and in good chakra shape.
Making chakra decluttering a regular part of your psychic care routine is a highly recommended practice for every new, developing and practicing psychic and medium.
(pssst... I make this easy for you down below where I include a meditation to help you do just that. But first...)
...You may be well acquainted with the chakras. For those who need an introduction or a quick refresher here you go:
The chakras are energy centres or wheels of energy in your body through which energy flows. There are seven chakras which are located at points starting at the base of your spine all the way up the centre of your body to the top of your head. When all is well with the chakras energy flows beautifully through each of them. Blocked or cluttered chakras means that there is not enough energy circulating through that chakra and can lead to physical imbalance, illness and loss of connection with spirit and your higher self. Here is a brief overview of each of the chakras, where they are and what they are associate with:
First chakra: Also known as the root chakra. Located at the base of the spine / tailbone area. Associated with security and survival issues such as money, food and shelter. Color: red.
Symptoms when cluttered or out of balance: lower back pain, diarrhea, fear, exhaustion, financial issues, addiction, lethargy.
Second chakra: Also known as the sacral chakra. Located in the lower abdomen her the pubic bone. Associated with creative energy, pleasure, overall well-being, abundance. Color: orange.
Symptoms when cluttered or out of balance: jealousy, lack of sexual desire, urinary tract infections, kidney stones, experiencing creative blocks.
Third chakra: Also know as the solar plexus. Located in the upper abdomen in the stomach area. Associated with issues of self-worth, self-esteem and self-confidence. Color: yellow.
Symptoms when cluttered or out of balance: stomach ailments, fear, ulcers, bulimia, obesity, indigestion, feelings of victimization.
Fourth chakra: Also known as the heart chakra. Located in the centre of the chest just above the heart. Color: green, pink. Associated with the ability to give and receive love.
Symptoms when cluttered or out of balance include: heart problems (including heart attach), intolerance, week immune system, asthma, angina and lack of joy in life.
Fifth chakra: Also known as the throat chakra. Located in the base of the throat (Adam’s apple area). Color: blue. Associated with communication, decision making, creativity and truth.
Symptoms when cluttered or out of balance include: Soar throats, dishonesty, thyroid problems, incessant talking, being too shy, inability to speak one’s truth to another.
Sixth chakra: Also know as the third eye or brow chakra. Located just above the eyebrows in the centre of the forehead. Color: indigo. Associated with intuition, intelligence, wisdom and discernment.
Symptoms when cluttered or out of balance include: migraine headaches, tension headaches, eye problems, feeling spaced out, forgetfulness, inability to remember one’s dreams, being too much in one’s head, problems staying focussed and an inability to connect with one’s inner wisdom.
Seventh chakra: Also known as the crown chakra. Located at the top of the head. Color: violet, pure white light. Associated with inspiration, oneness with the Universe, divinity, inspiration and present moment awareness.
Symptoms when cluttered or out of balance include: confusion, dominant ego function, mental illness, worry and dizziness.
Chakras work both individually and cooperatively with each other at the same time. When one is out of balance it usually means that the one below or just above it is also out of balance. So it makes good sense to approach delcuttering the chakras holistically, giving them all a good declutter, cleanse and clear. This can be done through visualization, meditation, (which I include below!) and even simply replacing negative thoughts and perspectives that you hold with positive, joyous ones.
(I also have a free eBook: Chakras & Auras: Their Role and Importance in Mediumship & Psychic & Intuitive Development. How to Put Them to Work for You! which is available to you when you join my Mediumship Learning Portal. It's free!)
Here is a very simple visualization to help your declutter your chakras:
(This meditation (and many more!) is also available for free online listening when you join my Mediumship Learning Portal.)
Current MLP members may access both the eBook and the audio meditation HERE.
Here we go:
1. Sit comfortably in a quiet spot.
2. Take a few nice deep in and out breaths. Breath in calm and relaxation. Breath out worry and any residue from you day.
3. Once you feel more calm and relaxed visualize a ball of pure white light. See this pure white light just above your head. Watch as this ball of pure white light opens and envelops your whole body, like a refreshing and glorious waterfall from the top of your head down to the bottom of your feet. Feel the warmth and protection of this pure white light.
4. Now taking a full deep breath, breath this pure white light into your crown chakra at the top of your head. Watch as it envelops your crown chakra. As the pure white light encircles your crown chakra say:
“I breath love, light and healing into my crown chakra. All clutter, residue and that which does not serve me are consumed by this pure white light and returned to source. I release all that has blocked me from receiving the highest light and love.”
Visualize the pure white light swirling around and through your seventh chakra, cleaning and clearing all blockages and returning them to source forever.
5. Now take a deep breath and watch as this pure white light swirls its way down to your third eye chakra. Watch as it envelops your third eye chakra. As the pure white light encircles your third eye chakra say:
“I breath love, light and healing into my third eye chakra. All clutter, residue and that which does not serve me are consumed by this pure white light and returned to source. I release all that has blocked me from receiving the highest light and love.”
Visualize the pure white light swirling around and through your sixth chakra, cleaning and clearing all blockages and returning them to source forever.
6. Now take a deep breath and watch as this pure white light makes its way down to your throat chakra. Watch as it envelops your throat chakra. As the pure white light encircles your throat chakra say:
“I breath love, light and healing into my throat chakra. All clutter, residue and that which does not serve me are consumed by this pure white light and returned to source. I release all that has blocked me from receiving the highest light and love.”
Visualize the pure white light swirling around and through your fifth chakra, cleaning and clearing all blockages and returning them to source forever.
7. Now take a deep breath and watch as this pure white light makes its way down to your heart chakra. Watch as it envelops your heart chakra. As the pure white light encircles your heart chakra say:
“I breath love, light and healing into my heart chakra. All clutter, residue and that which does not serve me are consumed by this pure white light and returned to source. I release all that has blocked me from receiving the highest light and love.”
Visualize the pure white light swirling around and through your fourth chakra, cleaning and clearing all blockages and returning them to source forever.
8. Now take a deep breath and watch as this pure white light makes its way down to your solar plexus chakra. Watch as it envelops your solar plexus chakra. As the pure white light encircles your solar plexus chakra say:
“I breath love, light and healing into my solar plexus chakra. All clutter, residue and that which does not serve me are consumed by this pure white light and returned to source. I release all that has blocked me from receiving the highest light and love.”
Visualize the pure white light swirling around and through your third chakra, cleaning and clearing all blockages and returning them to source forever.
9. Now take a deep breath and watch as this pure white light makes its way down to your sacral chakra. Watch as it envelops your brow chakra. As the pure white light encircles your sacral chakra say:
“I breath love, light and healing into my sacral chakra. All clutter, residue and that which does not serve me are consumed by this pure white light and returned to source. I release all that has blocked me from receiving the highest light and love.”
Visualize the pure white light swirling around and through your second chakra, cleaning and clearing all blockages and returning them to source forever.
10. Now take a deep breath and watch as this pure white light makes its way down to your root chakra. Watch as it envelops your root chakra. As the pure white light encircles your root chakra say:
“I breath love, light and healing into my root chakra. All clutter, residue and that which does not serve me are consumed by this pure white light and returned to source. I release all that has blocked me from receiving the highest light and love.”
Visualize the pure white light swirling around and through your first chakra, cleaning and clearing all blockages and returning them to source forever.
11. Now take a deep breath and watch as the pure white light leaves your body through the root chakra a the base of your spine and goes deep into the earth completely grounding you. Watch as the pure white light that envelops your body dissipates and goes out into the universe leaving you cleared and decluttered.
There you go. Your chakras are cleared, cleansed and back in healthy balance.
Now, go enjoy doing your psychic & mediumship readings!
Mediumship is an awesome thing. It is a beautiful blessing for those folks who choose to develop their mediumship gift and also for those who receive healing readings from good mediums.
Have you ever been to a public mediumship demonstration and witnessed the laughter, tears and deeply emotional responses from recipients in the audience who have had a good, healing reading from one of the mediums? It warms your heart.
That's what I'm talking about.
However mediumship is also a delicate and sometimes difficult thing to get a hold of, as it were.
Sometimes it's so many spirits coming in at once it gets hard to keep track of who's who and what's what.
Then there are those times when the information comes in so fast and all over the place that you feel out of control of your mediumship experience.
Alas, there are also those times when you just can't seem to get anything out of the spirits. You're waiting and waiting for grandma to throw you a bone and it just isn't coming...
The good news is that you can take more control of your mediumship, and receive more and better information from the spirits.
Yes. You can set the bar for what it is you want and need from the spirits. And get it.
How's that you say?
Remember the chef Emeril Lagasse?
How did he take control of his cooking?
Yup, that's right. BAM Works with mediumship, too.
Clare (you ask)... what's BAM?
BAM is three steps you take in the same order every single time you do a mediumship reading of any kind that allows you to take more control of your mediumship experience.
BAM puts you in the driver's seat.
Here's the three steps of BAM:
#1: B = the BASICS
First things first. Start with the basics. When you know you've got a spirit who wants to communicate, before you do anything else you need to get the identification BASICS from that spirit so you have some idea of who you're talking to.
What I mean here are the basic, entry level physical and characteristic identifiers such as...
... things like that.
One of my mediumship teachers referred to this getting the spirit's "name, rank and serial number."
For example, it's one thing to say your readee:
"I have an older man here... feels like he could be your grandfather."
And an entirely different thing to offer to your readee:
"I have an older gentleman here who had quite a thick head of white hair well into his old age. He was around 80 years old when he transitioned. He was a man of smaller stature and he had a really good sense of humor. He could be cheeky and lots of fun and he easily made people laugh."
The first example does not identify much at all. It's a vague description - an older man - and a guess on the part of the medium that he could be my grandfather.
Ummm... sure, he could be my grandfather but how would I KNOW? My grandfather was surely an older gentleman but aren't they all?
The second example gives me characteristics that my grandfather actually had. The medium has given me some of the basics of his personality and his physical attributes.
This fellow definitely feels like he's shaping up to be my grandad in spirit!
I'm getting pretty excited at this point.
We are clearly onto something good here but that is still not quite enough.
The information provided in the second example is a great start, and dispels a great deal of potential confusion, but I still need more to be sure.
I need to know that the medium is talking to my small, thick white haired, funny grandad, not just any grandad that fits the same description.
#2: A = Ask & Authenticate
The second step in BAM is to authenticate, for the sitter, (me in this example), who the spirit is.
How do you do this?
You ASK the spirit for authentic information.
Spirit communication is a two way street. You can ask the spirit for solid, specific pieces of evidential information. In fact you MUST do this. How is the spirit to know what you want and need if you don't ask?
Ask the spirit for something that will make it undeniably clear who he or she is.
Ask the spirit: "How will this person know you?"
Receive then relay the spirit's answer to your recipient.
The spirit might share a warm memory with you. And a favorite vacation spot. The spirit might tell you what he did for a living and what he liked to eat for breakfast on Sunday.
B (basics) + A (authentication) = OMG this is undoubtedly my grandfather!!
That's what you're shooting for.
Those pieces of information unique to the spirit that leave no room for doubt about who the spirit is. Specifics.
Continuing with my grandfather in spirit as the example this could be something like:
"This gentleman shows me his ankle, which looks injured or even broken. He looks to be an older man, in his sixties when this happened to him. He also shows me the Union Jack flag, a vintage airstream trailer and the number '76' ".
My grandfather was from England, loved to travel and at one point owned an awesome 1960's airstream upon which he proudly displayed a decal of the Union Jack. I traveled with him in that airstream during the summer of '76. And my grandfather broke his ankle playing soccer with me and my sister when he was 67 years old.
I now have no doubt that the medium has made a connection with my grandfather. No doubt whatsoever.
Now... the medium could continue to bring through more details, physical characteristics and other things that reaffirm this spirit as my grandfather. And that would be fine.
However spirits come through to their loved ones in the living because they have something more to say. They have a...
#3 M = Message:
It takes a great deal of effort on the part of a spirit to make contact with a medium.
The spirits don't do this lightly.
Spirits go to all the trouble it takes them to make contact for a reason. It's because they have something they want to say.
They have a message for the person they are coming to speak to.
A mediumship reading without a message is like an ice-cream sundae without whipped cream and a cherry on top.
It's like Fred Astaire without Ginger Rogers.
It's like a Marguerita without the reposado tequila...
Something important is missing.
I have seen mediums receive wonderful B (basic identifiers) and amazing A (authentication) that leaves no room for doubt as to who the spirit is, then end the reading right there. Over. Finito.
Don't do this.
Once you know that your sitter is absolutely certain they know who you have there with you in spirit it is time to ask the spirit for his or her message.
You can ask: What message do you have for your loved one?
Or: What is it you'd like your loved one to know?
And you don't need to ask this out loud. Simply ask the spirit telepathically for the message. Always ask telepathically.
Every spirit message is unique and wonderful.
Some are very down to earth and pretty regular. Like, for example, this message that I brought through from a mom in spirit to her daughter:
"Honey, I love that you are painting your kitchen but I really don't like the yellow you have chosen. Its too pale and boring. Go with green."
(BTW... the daughter laughed and then cried because she was so delighted to know that her mother in spirit was watching her paint her kitchen. She decided to stick with yellow though... :)
Some messages are very healing and help put to rest things left unsaid. Some clear up misunderstandings between the spirit and the loved one left behind. Some messages I've received from the spirit world have even revealed to the loved one where an important document or item was located.
Before you close the connection with the spirit make sure you ask for the Message.
So there you have it. The BAM technique.
B: Basics - get & share them
A: Ask & Authenticate - specific evidence
M: Message - get one!
BAM helps you make a good, strong link with the spirit world.
BAM makes it clear to the spirits what you need from them to communicate successfully.
BAM takes your mediumship from chaos to crystal clear.
Bring the BAM technique into your mediumship and dramatically improve the quality of your readings.
4 Tips for Working with Your Spirit Guides in Mediumship
This post is the third and final part of the Straight Talk from a Spirit Guide series.
If you missed the first two articles here are the links:
Part One: What This Spirit Guide Thing is Really All About
Part Two: Spirit Guides and Mediumship: Who They Are and How They Help Us
Continuing my conversation with my main teacher guide Monika:
Clare: Monika, you have given us a lot of good information about spirit guides and mediumship.
Today what I would really like you to cover for our readers is this: What is the best way for us to work with our guides in our mediumship?
Monika: Sounds good, Clare. First let me do a brief recap of what I've talked about so far:
All mediums have a special mediumship guide who oversees everything to do with your mediumship growth, learning, development and the actual practice of mediumship.
In addition to your mediumship guide you also have a gatekeeper guide, who keeps the gate between you and the spirit world so to speak. You will also receive help from your joy guide and your healer guide, too.
Your joy guide can help you to raise your vibration for your mediumship.
Your healer guide can point you towards just the right healing ways and tools for you such as crystals and gemstones to support your development, essential oils or practices such as yoga or reiki to help keep you calm and balanced for your mediumship.
So now to address your question about how you can best work with your guides?
I have four tips to help you work really well with your guides in your mediumship readings and demonstrations.
1. Set a clear intention for your work as a medium and for your mediumship.
To do this you need to:
The best time to do this when you are first starting out. If you have not yet set an intention for your work, take the time to do it! Your intention may change over time as your how and develop as a medium and that is just fine. However, sorting out the above as you begin you journey will really help you and your guides.
When you set a clear intention your mediumship guide and the other guides will be know how to best help you with your mediumship!
2. Make a connection with your mediumship guide. Get to know him or her!
You can do this by going into meditation and asking your mediumship guide to come to you. Ask him or her for a sign of their presence and be specific with what you ask for.
Then give your guide the space to send that sign to you. Be open to receive what your mediumship guide sends you!
You can also ask all of your guides to show / tell you where each of them stands or situates him or herself while you are doing your mediumship readings and demonstrations. Maybe your mediumship guide stands beside you or in front of you. Find out by asking!
3. Open up the line of communication by talking to your mediumship guide and your other guides.
Call your guides in before each of your readings and explicitly ask them for what you want during spirit communication.
Do you want them to line up the spirits one by one so you are not overwhelmed by too many spirits trying to come through all at once?
Tell your mediumship guide that is what you want!
Need more specific information but having difficulty getting it from a spirit who has showed up during a client session or demonstration?
Ask your mediumship guide to help you get that information.
You can absolutely ask your mediumship guide for anything you feel you need for your mediumship. Books, articles, learning materials, opportunities to practice, the right clients, the right venues for demonstration work. Whatever you want or need from your guides - just ask!
Need help raising your vibration? Ask your joy guide (or whoever on your guide team looks after that) to do that for you! You can find out who on your team helps raise your vibration by asking that guide to step forward in a meditation. He or she will be more than happy to do so!
Feel tired or ungrounded after doing your readings? Ask your healer guide to help you out with that.
The more that you talk with your guides, the more you deepen your relationship with them. And... they love it when you talk with them! They love to be regarded as the supportive wonderful spirit world dear friends that they are.
And last but certainly not least...
4. Thank your guides for working with you.
Take a moment to thank your guides for being there with you during your mediumship readings and public demonstrations.
Be sure to express your appreciation for all that they do for you and all the ways that they help you.
You can also take some time to debrief with with your guides after your readings. Let them know what went really well for you and also let them know where you felt challenged during your reading or demonstration.
If something didn't go so well ask them to help you do things differently the next time around. Ask your guides to put you in the path of everything that you might need to be able to accomplish what you want to happen go forward on your mediumship journey.
And that is how you work with your guides in your mediumship!
Clare: Monika, thank you for all of that information. It is very helpful!
Oh, and... thank you for all you do for me.
Monika: You are very welcome, Clare.
Did you know that there is a wonderful meditation in Clare's Mediumship Learning Portal specifically designed to help you meet your mediumship guide?
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